Today's feminism in a lot of ways is harming the women it is controlling.
And yes I said controlling, today's women behind feminist eyes has got a very limited set of rules. Today's women must be a business professional, be completely financially independent, must not need (a) man in her life, but can have men, or no men at all. Either that or she has to fit the typical hairy lesbian feminist stereotype. (and I am not insulting and mean no offense to lesbians, it’s just referring to the stereo type.)
For some women this maybe exactly what they want or need, and we are all entitled and have the right to be who we want without been looked down upon.
But this is not happening, feminists are constantly looking down upon those brave women who are breaking the norm, and are taking up more classic roles within the house, like cooking and cleaning, taking care of her partner and the children. Not because they are forced too but because they are more comfortable and happier in doing this.
Feminism is also destroying some womens ability to enjoy themselves sexually.
If you ask the average feminist what they think of a BDSM relationship where the female is the one on top, the response will always be positive.
But if you asked the same question but with the roles reversed, so that the man would be on top and the female in the submissive role. The answer will almost always be a resounding NO.
This is a personal choice made by a human being on a very deep level, and to have a group of feminists looking down on this personal choice can make them feel inferior and degraded.
There is also the issue of feminism making men bitter, by feminist women emotionally abusing men to the point where men come to hate women due to deep emotional pain.
Unfortunately this is a vicious cycle,
feminists hurt men, men get hurt, men hurt innocent women, innocent women turn into feminists to get back at men, feminists hurt men …....
So yes feminism is to blame for perpetuating toxic relationships between men and women.
Wednesday, 13 May 2009
Sex as a weapon
Feminism has done a great job at turning sex into a weapon. And I don't just mean that they push for women to abstain from sex, they actually encourage using it to humiliate and de-masculinate men.
Now I'm not saying that women should just lay on their backs and open their legs, but that feminism should start to realize that men are human too, and that we have needs, we have feelings and that we like to have sex, not just for the pleasure, but it is one of the ways that we express our feelings for women.
I have had partners that use sex as a weapon, all of which are self proclaimed feminists and all of which appear to enjoy 'the game'.
Friends of mine that have been with similar women all express the same opinion, and some of these friends have fallen into a depression type state, bought on by sexual frustration.
And if men express the fact that there is little to no sexual activity, the feminist women will always use the same line. “It's always about the sex with you”.
This line in its self is a weapon, as society has conditioned men to react to this by negatively reflecting upon themselves, to view themselves as selfish and that they are the only problem in the relationship.
In saying this there is another side to the story. There are guys out there who go out every chance they get, just to pick up a girl, have sex with her and never see her again. But heres the kicker....... Women do it too, and yes they do it to the same extent. Women are not the perfect angels that feminism would have you believe.
Now I'm not saying that women should just lay on their backs and open their legs, but that feminism should start to realize that men are human too, and that we have needs, we have feelings and that we like to have sex, not just for the pleasure, but it is one of the ways that we express our feelings for women.
I have had partners that use sex as a weapon, all of which are self proclaimed feminists and all of which appear to enjoy 'the game'.
Friends of mine that have been with similar women all express the same opinion, and some of these friends have fallen into a depression type state, bought on by sexual frustration.
And if men express the fact that there is little to no sexual activity, the feminist women will always use the same line. “It's always about the sex with you”.
This line in its self is a weapon, as society has conditioned men to react to this by negatively reflecting upon themselves, to view themselves as selfish and that they are the only problem in the relationship.
In saying this there is another side to the story. There are guys out there who go out every chance they get, just to pick up a girl, have sex with her and never see her again. But heres the kicker....... Women do it too, and yes they do it to the same extent. Women are not the perfect angels that feminism would have you believe.
Feminism in the media
Every time you turn on the TV you are bombarded by one of two things, sexism on both sides or feminist ideals.
Sexism on both sides are basically stereotypes exaggerated to make them seem comical, or the image of 'sexy' is used. Yes you do see near naked women on TV but you also see near naked men. Sexism is used in music videos a lot, mainly hip hop video clips to the point that which it has become fairly rude.
But feminist views in the mainstream media is rampant, you are constantly smacked in the face by adverts where men are portrayed as stupid, men portrayed as clumsy and slow.
There are also many TV shows where a couple on the show has broken up over the man cheating and he is then forever regarded as a sleaze and not to be trusted. Where as when similar shows have the woman cheating, there are a few tears then he forgives her and all is good by the end of the programs allocated 30 minutes.
You also get the stereotypical movie about this seemingly happy couple, but the male has a dark side and is secretly having an affair with someone younger and more beautiful.
I don't know about anyone else, but I have personally known of more women cheating on men then men cheating on women. One of these women once said 'it's ok, i'm the girl'.
Where did she get this idea from? I wouldn't think she would have gotten this idea from her parents, them been Asian and traditional. Who else is there? Friends from her social life? Where would they have gotten the idea from?
And why is it, when ever there is some feminist group ranting and raving over anything, you suddenly have feminists all over the country up in arms spewing out everything they've just heard and blaming men for it all?
Let me ask you this.
If a male rights group started vomiting garbage blaming women for everything, do you think anyone would take notice?
If women were portrayed as stupid, clumsy and slow in the media do you think it would be accepted?
MAN TAX !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What the hell is this
Man tax, is a tax that states that men must pay a tax because men have a violent tendency towards women.
This has got to be biggest load of..... I have ever seen coming from the feminist movement.
Yes some men are very abusive to women, not just physically, but mentally, emotionally and financially as well. I have had female friends very close to me become victim to these lunatics.
But this is no reason to punish the rest of us for their behavior. I have never lifted a finger towards a women and I never will. I have no violent streak towards women what ever. I have no fantasy about raping women and I find no pleasure what so ever by making women feel bad.
Now what feminists wouldn't want you to know is that there are many abusive relationships with women been abusive to males. and surprise surprise these abusive women are self proclaimed FEMINISTS
I myself have been in very abusive relationships, with me been on the receiving end, women who believed they could do what ever they wanted simply because they were female and myself being male.
The sad thing is that their right about this view. Society has bent to the feminist way of thinking and what they do to men is now considered normal.
Country's I know that have or are considering man tax include USA, Canada, Finland and Sweden
Man tax, is a tax that states that men must pay a tax because men have a violent tendency towards women.
This has got to be biggest load of..... I have ever seen coming from the feminist movement.
Yes some men are very abusive to women, not just physically, but mentally, emotionally and financially as well. I have had female friends very close to me become victim to these lunatics.
But this is no reason to punish the rest of us for their behavior. I have never lifted a finger towards a women and I never will. I have no violent streak towards women what ever. I have no fantasy about raping women and I find no pleasure what so ever by making women feel bad.
Now what feminists wouldn't want you to know is that there are many abusive relationships with women been abusive to males. and surprise surprise these abusive women are self proclaimed FEMINISTS
I myself have been in very abusive relationships, with me been on the receiving end, women who believed they could do what ever they wanted simply because they were female and myself being male.
The sad thing is that their right about this view. Society has bent to the feminist way of thinking and what they do to men is now considered normal.
Country's I know that have or are considering man tax include USA, Canada, Finland and Sweden
Feminism, what you came from
At one point in time feminism was needed in the western world. Women were oppressed and treated like second class citizens, beaten and raped at home, humiliated in public by men who knew no better. And I for one believe that feminism was really needed for these times.
Women do deserve the right to vote, the right to wear what they want, the right for a voice in all matters and not just matters of the home.
Individuality and independence are important to all people, everyone should feel that they can express what ever is on their mind, and not be afraid of public stigma.
But this is just it Feminism is all about equal rights, not any more feminism now days is now all about punishing men for things that our ancestors have done to their ancestors. Generations of males and females have been pushing hard for equal rights between the sexes, But equal rights are not enough for today's blood thirsty feminists.
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Women do deserve the right to vote, the right to wear what they want, the right for a voice in all matters and not just matters of the home.
Individuality and independence are important to all people, everyone should feel that they can express what ever is on their mind, and not be afraid of public stigma.
But this is just it Feminism is all about equal rights, not any more feminism now days is now all about punishing men for things that our ancestors have done to their ancestors. Generations of males and females have been pushing hard for equal rights between the sexes, But equal rights are not enough for today's blood thirsty feminists.
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